What is a Dildo?
A dildo is a sex toy used for women’s pleasure. They are most commonly shaped like a penis, however a dildo can come in varying shapes, sizes, colour and material and can be used vaginal, anal or oral penetration. There are different types of dildos including those that strap-on, double ended dildos, and straight up original dildos which are the one’s that resemble a penis.
Some variations include:
- Dildos with a flared base. Women opt for a dildo with a flared base for the simple reason it is easier to use. A flared base makes it easier to hold onto the dildo and also means that there is no risk of the dildo becoming lost inside the vagina if the person accidentally lets go of the dildo.
- Dildos with testicles attached. Women opt for this kind of dildo again so the dildo does not become lost inside the vagina, and also if they want a more realistic sensation.
- Curved or straight shaft. This is entirely dependant on the person and what kind of feel they are after. Some dildos curve at the end and this is popular with women seeking g-spot stimulation.
- Textured shaft with veins. Some dildos have veins on the shaft and are curved to give the more life-like appearance, and the head of the penis also resembles a life-like penis.
What is the difference between a dildo and a vibrator?
The main different is a dildo does not vibrate.
How do I know which dildo is best to buy first?
If you are looking for your first dildo, a narrow dildo with a smooth shaft is easiest to use. A seasoned user may opt for the biggest most textured dildo, however first time users tend to ease themselves into the game and start with a smaller and untextured shaft.
If you are completely unsure of where to start then make it easy and chose a dildo that is in your favourite colour or choose one that looks visually pleasing for you.
Some things to think about before buying a dildo
Before you buy your dildo, some good questions to ask yourself are :
- What is the ideal size dildo for me?
- Would I like it to be textured?
- Do I want a life-like penis dildo?
- Would I like a textured shaft for extra stimulation?
- Do I want it to have testicles attached?
- How thick would I like it to be?
- What material would I like?
- Do I want the dildo to be curved?
- Would I prefer a flared base?
What are dildos made from?
A dildo can be made from a variety of different materials. It is uncommon for people to know all the materials that it can come in, here is a list of some of the most common materials:
- Silicon rubber dildos – usually the first choice for quality, ease of cleaning and there are many different variations in shape, size and colour.
- Jelly rubber dildos – these are usually cheaper and often a first choice for first time users. They are best used with a condom.
- Glass dildos – these are very popular for those people who like to experiment with their masturbation play. They can be heated up or cooled down to increase stimulation. For this reason they are usually more expensive however they are also dishwasher safe so very easy to clean.
Care for your dildo
It’s extremely important that you clean your dildo before and after use. It’s best to keep it in a safe, clean spot where it is likely to gather as little dust as possible. Bacteria is easily spread a dirty dildo is unhygienic. There is a range of anti-bacterial toy cleaner all which are excellent, easy to use, and they are a cheap way of maintaining hygiene. While a dildo can be cleaned with hot soapy water, toy cleaner is a much better alternative.
Most importantly, keep your dildo close by the bed so you can use it all the time!